30 April 2013

Kill, kill,kill ........


Kill, kill, kill.  If this is what people hear and watch day in and day out then what will be the outcome?
We will calibrate our lives to believe that violence, mayhem and killing are perfectly normal activities.

Add to this state of mind, an easy access to weapons, and further agitate these minds and all hell breaks loose.

The Americans measure and monitor everything and that is extremely informative and educational. A report prepared by the University of Pennsylvania showed that a typical American child by the age of 16 will have witnessed 180,000 acts of violence and 20,000 murders on television. Add to this the violence that is reported in the newspapers, and magazines, the movies, violent video games and we have ticking time bombs.


Starting soon after world war II and promoted by Hollywood and export of this culture to the whole world, violence has become a staple diet for most people.  Imperialism necessitates the glorification of war and violence.  Unfortunately the Americans are not the only ones and the Russians, Chinese, and even we the pacifistic Indians have a big appetite for violence.


Why then should we be surprised by widespread killings and violence, be it in homes, workplaces, schools, and places of worship at regular frequency. People are increasingly using violence as the first step in resolving issues. This insanity harms mainly innocent people who pose no threat nor bear the killers any ill-will.

The violence hurts less when it appears far away, as if we read it in a story book. When it strikes at home or someone we know the effect is usually unsettling if not devastating.




A nephew of mine (at that time aged 10) fancied himself a mini version of some of the killers he saw on television. Much against his mother's angry protests he persuaded his father to buy him an air pistol. Always brandishing the weapon he led his younger siblings and other kids in the neighbourhood playing games of war and killing.

One day while role playing, the young boy shot his younger brother in the face at point blank range. The little boy's eye exploded.  The child's life was scarred, and the family developed irreparable fissures.

Even 18 years later there is a simmering anger within the child and his mother. There is a latent fear and  anxiety in the mind of the nephew who fired the weapon and his parents, for they know what goes around comes around, and there will have to be payback. Not knowing when they will have to pay the price and how, is a fear that haunts them everyday.

 In all of history there has been no instance of violence having effectively resolved an issue permanently. If you do not want innocent people to be maimed or killed, stop glorifying war and violence. Do not expose yourselves and your children unnecessarily to violent behaviour unless you want them to pursue a career or lifestyle which demands violence.


8 comments:

  1. Ajay Dhumal says,


    Hi you have not only evolved into being a great human being but also a great writer.
    The other day I read another instance of a small boy killing his sister. Your article condemning violence if practised would probably save so many lives how I wish it be widely published and followed .

    Smokey James story for instance was so pleasing to read how our friends have spiritually developed to continue to love god in all situations. Smokey has elected to be a priest and he has become fully accomplished, setting an example to all how intensely and sincerely should one love god and not be moved even in the most trying moments.

    I read a story about mother Teresa she was running fever and had to attend to sick people despite her illness she decided to go it started raining not be deterred.

    she decided to go the wheels of the bullock cart in which she was travelling came off.

    She asked God why are u doing this?
    God replied this is how I treat-friends.
    Mother replied that is why u have so few friends.

    Sorry for the delayed response I am just learning to access mails and trying to respond to them, but I am honoured in having such out standing friends.

    Please convey my respects to smokey

    warm regards
    Ajay
    ajaydhumal47@gmail.com

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  2. Dear Ajay,

    Many thanks for your great mail.
    Experience I have learnt is not what happens to us, but what we do with what happens to us.

    My friend it always feels great to hear from you.

    Warm regards

    Gurvinder

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  3. Anil Gudi said,

    WITH DUE RESPECTS TO YOU AND ALL THE READERS OF SUCH ARTICLES.

    I HAVE ALWAYS OBSERVED THAT WE ALL INDIANS TEND TO COMPARE THE WEST TO THE EAST.

    WESTERN CULTURE /INDIAN CULTURE; ETC ETC.

    BUT I HAVE FURTHER OBSERVED THAT WE KEEP COMPARING ONLY THE NEGATIVENESS ONLY BAD THINGS ONLY. WHY NOT THE GOOD THINGS AT ALL. I DON'T THINK IT IS LOGICAL.

    I AM NOT IN A MOOD OF DEFENDING THE WESTERN WORLD OR THE AMERICANS IN PARTICULAR. IT IS MY WISH THAT WHEN WE WANT TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT COMPARE BAD AND THE GOOD TOO. EMULATE AND INCULCATE THE GOOD THINGS AND OVERLOOK THE BAD ONE'S.

    BUT IT HAS BEEN MY OBSERVATION THAT WE ONLY TEND TO COMPARE THE BAD AND TALK ABOUT THEM AND ULTIMATELY COPY THEM ONLY. BUT THE GOOD THING ARE NEVER DONE. WHY NOT ????????????

    I AM SORRY IF I HAVE HURT ANY ONE BUT ITS A FACT AND MY OBSERVATION.

    WHILE POINTING A FINGER TO THE OTHER PERSON THERE ARE THREE POINTING TOWARDS US. LET US CORRECT OURSELVES FIRST AND THEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anil Gudi

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    1. Dear Anil,

      Thank u for your response.
      My articles are meant to start a dialogue on issues that matter to us as Indians and as global citizens.
      Why should I feel hurt when you speak your mind and heart?

      My article does not compare East to West but shows a bad trend that we in India are following the West. It is a warning for parents not to let their children follow violence.
      Most of my articles focus on the magnificience of the human spirit and the power of love and the rich heritage of Indian philosophy and spirituality.
      In India there is very little research and information available on many important subjects and topics. Therefore we have to rely on American and British information which is widely published.

      I will be grateful for your continued feedback

      Best Regards

      Gurvinder

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  4. Akshay Chaturvedi said,

    Rainy, beautiful topic, beautifully addressed.
    If your objective was to touch the topic and not delve into it further, then you have achieved it.

    This feeling comes out of revenge and to achieve victory or subjugate. Where is the need ? Just Ego or loot?

    How many people have taught themselves or their children alternate routes to achieve same results.Okay, the results are not instant, however, they are permanent.

    Write another one as a continuation.

    I also hope you have developed your 'Listening Strengths' to be able to write on it.
    I could help you edit the writeup before you put it on blog.

    This could help you avoid scathing responses.

    My Hi to your family

    Akshay akshaychaturvedi2003@rediffmail.com

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  5. Dear Akshay,

    You are amongst my best friends and my worst critic.
    Your suggestions delight me, and occasionaly confuse me.

    I do not mind scathing responses, how else will I learn?
    We must talk more on how e can collaborate on all matters.

    Please convey our love to Manju, Suhail, and Surbhi.

    Rainy

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  6. Jayesh Deolalikar said ( by email)

    Dear Sir

    recd a very interesting and eye opening mail

    Regards

    Deolalikar Jayesh

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  7. Zabeen Jariwalla said (by email),

    Thank you, I do completely agree with you.

    There is a lot of pain in this age which is so oppressive, it overpowers everything. We can't allow seeds if negativism to hang around for a few bare seconds because they will thrive and very quickly.

    The best chance is to clear the spaces to keep room for positivity or at best be neutral till grace enters your life.

    Thanks for your writing, :)
    Zabeen

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