Imagine networking thousands of minds and hearts to come together unconditionally, to make our world a better place to live, work, and play. To bequeath to our children a better world than the one we inherited. A world free of prejudice, hatred, and persecution, where sex, religion, nationality, and age are of no consequence This is why I write this blog. To reach out and invite like spirited people to come together, to create a super mind and super heart.
13 December 2020
The folly of seeking happiness in the 'Rat Race'
15 November 2020
If it's not for money, then why do you write?
A friend asked me, "If it's not for money then why do you write?"
It would be foolish to say that 'money is not important' but can that and should that be, the only reason for doing anything?
Writing I suppose is like playing golf.
One really doesn't play for money or against an opponent, but for oneself against oneself. Attempting to improve oneself from the previous day. Meaning that one should write for one's own sake and for oneself, improving with each piece in clarity, brevity, impact and pleasure.
If I write something nice, correct or agreeable, I get a decent number of replies providing me some new learning.
If I wish to learn something more, I have to only make or plant an error. Then I am bombarded with criticism, corrections and different perspective.
I suppose like men can usually never resist a bad girl, it is difficult for readers to resist a writer who in their opinion needs correcting and learning.
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Because of my writing, I have found several teachers, discovered some students, and befriended many, in this insanely wonderful world.
Every day offers an opportunity to share good wishes. Today is special because it is the new year day for the vast majority of Indians. I send you greetings and good wishes.
22 October 2020
What Meditation is not
The Western mind deeply influenced by Judaism, Christianity and Islam which has no room for meditation. Contemplation yes, meditation no. Hence the Oxford dictionary erroneously defines 'meditation' and 'indulgence in thought. Ignorance can mislead us.
The concept of meditation originated in the East where great Masters shared it with their disciples. Unfortunately, even though India is the birth place of Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and Sikhism, there is a lot of misunderstanding about meditation. Arrogance can mislead us.
Every seeker of the Truth struggles to experience and understand. A true master teaches without considerations of money, power, or benefit of any kind. (Disciples out of gratitude almost always make a voluntary contribution in money or kind to their teacher). Hence the true master remains openly honest, terribly blunt and virtuously open, keeping only the disciples development in focus.
Here is something from the great Master J. Krishnamurti that I would like to share with my readers.
There are many schools of meditation, each following its own methods and systems. claiming that if one practice these methods /systems, the practitioner will achieve a certain form of enlightenment. They claim that by their methods of meditation one can realise or experience an extraordinary state of existence.
A system or a method implies a mechanical repetition and that cannot be called as meditation, because repetition can only dull the mind.
Meditation is awareness, the awareness of our own thoughts, without trying to suppress, manipulate or control our thoughts. To simply observe dispassionately, the whole momentum of our thinking, this constant chattering that is going on within us.
Daydreaming is not meditation, for meditation requires a great discipline. Not the discipline of suppression or control, but the subtle discipline born out of observing one's own thinking.
One can therefore meditate at any time of one's choosing and at any place. Meditation is observation, an acute awareness of what is happening around us and also within oneself.
Meditation is not praying, for meditation is the emptying of the mind of everything we know, for only then can we begin to know the unknown. To see something new one must empty the mind of the past. Our experience of God or Truth or whatever we choose to call it has to be something new. It cannot be something born out of centuries and even thousands of years of conditioning or propaganda.
God or truth as we know it by organised religion is constantly decaying, if not dead. Truth is a living experience, that means it is here and now without baggage from the past.
A mind must be emptied of the past to become aware of the living Truth as it is today. To realise this Truth of the present the mind is silenced of all baggage of the past and all the chatter in the mind in the present.
The silent mind is not the absence of noise, rather it is the mind that has become aware of and understood its own thoughts. Such a mind grows silent and the body stills. Then an extraordinary state is achieved, the brain cells themselves become quiet. That is real meditation.
Meditation is often misunderstood as submission to some scriptural or human authority, or the chanting or mere repetition of words.
Real meditation is 'Simran' a stilling of the body and mind so as to be acutely aware of all that is without and within our mind. It is only then can we awaken to the Truth frequently referred to as God, a 'Truth' realised by ourselves rather than one given to us by others.
Do we possess, the audacity to awaken?
19 October 2020
Why are friendships sometimes lost?
In spite of wanting to see his friend, the wise man restrained himself, thus not visiting his friend for many days.
When he did go to visit him, his friend remonstrated, 'Why have you taken so long to visit?'
The wise man replied, 'It is better than you asking me, why have you come again?'
Friendships are strained and even lost by interacting either too rarely or too often.
Friendship is like a 'Diya', an oil lamp. It requires a regular supply of fuel oil to keep the flame of friendship alive.
Meeting rarely or staying out of touch for long periods, is like depriving the lamp of sufficient oil. As a result the flame flickers and eventually dies out.
Meeting too often is like pouring an excess of oil into the lamp, thus extinguishing the flame. Only the empty lamp remains, possibly with a few sparks but there is no flame. So it is with friendship.
Another way of understanding why friendships do not sustain is, what I describe as threshold capacity of one's personal space.
Each person has his or her threshold of having other people in their physical, intellectual, and emotional space.
Some need and want more, others a lot less.
Spending a lot of time sharing space with others, like in the army, or in travelling or working intimately together, being a member of a large and active joint family, or having spent an extended time at boarding schools etc. it tends to enhance the threshold of accepting people in our life space.
Hence, I have a very high threshold for accommodating a large number of high intensity interactions simultaneously. On the other hand my wife Mohini and some of my friends have a low threshold. They need the comfort of their private space a lot more and calibrate their lives accordingly.
When friends, even good ones with widely different thresholds share their personal space, then, either sparks fly or exhaustion causes them to withdraw.
The solution is to be sensitive and understand the threshold levels of others.
Unfortunately people sometimes misjudge or forget where that threshold level is, and I am one of them.
Note: Understanding and respecting the threshold is applicable not only to friendships but in fact all relationships. It is key to achieving success and realising happiness.
14 October 2020
30 September 2020
Carrying Coronavirus fear much too far
A policeman stopped and fined a friend for driving his car without wearing a mask, even though the glasses of the automobile were rolled up and there were no other passengers in the car.
This is typical behaviour of people who implement guidelines without understanding the intent or application of mind. Actually, that is not entirely true, they are indeed thinking, but about the wrong things. Rather than focussing on doing a good job, of assisting, they are thinking more about how to dominate and control others.
Those who have volunteered or been paid to be appointed into any position of responsibility tends to attract people who want to exert control and dominance over others.
Wearing a mask is an excellent idea when one comes in contact with other people outside their immediate family circle.
The best prevention for nose, throat or lung infection is to breathe fresh air. Most masks permit adequate oxygen to reach the lungs but there is tendency for masks to pick up dust and pathogens. So disposable ones must not be reused, and reusable ones must be washed and cleaned regularly.
An associate informed me that there are three of them at home, and stay confined to their bedrooms, emerging only when essential. They wear masks all the time, even within the house.
I put up this image because I imagined that the terrified ones must be wearing masks even to bed. Now that is typical of most people who carry their fear so far that they have turned paranoid and I suppose it is their individual privilege.
Caution is good but paranoia is not. The question is, 'Can paranoid people be permitted to make life impossible for others?'
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Interesting Links:
- Coronavirus disease (COVID-19) advice for the public: Myth Busters - World Health Organisation
- The COVID-19 Cytokine Storm; What We Know So Far - Frontiers in immunology
- COVID-19: Are 80% cases in India really asymptomatic - Down to Earth
- Global Coronavirus Statistics
- Fear does not stop death - Guru Wonder
- Will Coronavirus COVID-19, kill me? - Guru Wonder
- Can a coronavirus recovered patient be reinfected with Covid-19?
04 September 2020
21 July 2020
The eighth wonder is, swallowing the world.
There is so much beauty, and wonder in the universe, but it seems, we spend most of our lives, wondering, 'What is wrong with the world?'
Nothing and yet everything.
Nothing is wrong with Nature and Creation, its exquisite and unfathomable. So what we do not understand, we condemn.
Humankind, now that is a completely different matter, for here, everything seems to be wrong.
Which leads us to the question, 'What is the root cause of all that is wrong?'
The 'will to power', the desperate and insatiable desire to dominate all that we humans set our eyes on or even conceive, is the root cause of human suffering.
With time the methods and approach to acquiring power and dominating has changed and grown more sophisticated. However two fundamental approaches remain unchanged, wealth and force. Both are transient, and temporary, but that has never stopped the human animal from relying on them.
Unfortunately other great human qualities of friendship, compassion, wisdom and respect which are more useful and enduring traits of our human nature have all been subordinated to the pursuit of wealth and power. The two are synonymous, because in a material world all power originates with wealth.
Almost every human benefit and progress, tragedy and setback can be traced to Man's pursuit of money.
So called modern society, is designed to earn, steal or extort money at every occasion. Government, politics, society, justice, law and order machinery, education, religion, healthcare/illness-care, art, literature, music, every aspect of society is structured focussed primarily on obtaining more wealth and power.
Those who don't have wealth want it, those who have it want even more of it. This craving is insatiable.
Unfortunately incredible material, and scientific progress has resulted in an unhappier, unhealthier and unsustainable world. This has made us beautiful humans, ugly.
The single greatest factor for all this misery is not poverty but a ridiculous excess of wealth. This wealth in the hands of few individuals, organisations and countries compels them to put this wealth to earn more wealth by deploying it as loans to others.
To get the world hooked on borrowing, we are made to feel inadequate about ourselves and our situation. Our GDP has to zoom, we must have this and we must have that. As aspirations rise by leaps and bounds while our ability to pay for them are restricted, we are compelled to borrow.
Not only individuals and families fall in this debt trap, many organisations, and all countries fall in this debt trap, spending money they do not have to get things they want but do not need. Then borrowing more money to pay the interest. Modern slaves are not in chains they are in debt.
Baron Rothschild a member of the wealthiest family in the world is supposed to have remarked, at a dinner party, "I can't name the Seven Wonders of the World, but I can tell you that the Eighth Wonder is compound interest.”
'Compound Interest' is the accumulation of interest to the principal amount repeatedly on money borrowed. So by compounding the interest at a rate of 7% per year the amount invested doubles every 10 years. Or as in many developing countries where the interest rate of 18% per year the money returnable is doubled every 4 years.
The wealthy need to use their wealth to earn even more, and the way is lend it to earn more money by the compounding of interest on loans. It is because of the this the world of finance has come to dominate all aspects of human existence. This is why the people at the head of private banks, funds, and financial trading are paid obscene amounts by their employers.
This driving force that creeps and consumes humanity is compound interest. Debt is this cold and ruthless creature if not kept contained or limited slowly creeps and consumes the world.
From the lenders point of view, the beauty of lending money is that the lender can go about doing what they want while the meter of interest grows and compounds continuously, every second, night or day. In fact debt gnaws at the innards of its host the borrowers, eventually consuming all of humanity and the world.
When Napoleon had the concept of compound interest explained to him, he exclaimed: “I wonder, it has not swallowed the world.”
When 10% of the world wealthy have 80% of the wealth, it creates an imbalance and everything in modern society and economic policy is designed to not only conserve but enhance this.
Numerous revolutions, religions and ideologies have failed to change this situation of human self destruction.
This is because we try to use the same thinking, philosophy, institutions and social order to solve the problem which itself we have created.
Throughout history, great spiritual and philosophical masters have come, warning us humans of our foolish and excessive ways. But we are so smart hat we have even converted them and their messages into instruments of increasing our wealth and power. Now God is sold as religion. Love, friendship, compassion, and our intrinsic nature itself are all being traded and sold.
Driven to despair many of us drown ourselves in alcohol and drugs, violence and plunder, and those who cannot escape by these means indulge ourselves in a frenzy of entertainment, and acquisition of things and relationships. It seems we are doomed to remain unfulfilled and unhappy.
Some of the materially wealthy seek escape by unburdening ourselves, we donate all ur possessions, to institutes of religion education, government and social organisations. But our name must be there on the foundation stone and plaques. We trade cash for the wealth of a name in a memorial.
We try a number of ways to escape. To the hills, and wilderness, to the seas and the desert, to monasteries and to therapy. Nothing helps because at the core of our being our nature remains unchanged.
To live with dignity one needs wealth, and relationships, but how much?
I have discovered to my surprise, that when I stopped exploiting things and relationships, seeking neither power nor wealth, I have become liberated, grown happier and more peaceful.
23 June 2020
One cannot frighten the brave.
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20 June 2020
Please, hold my hand.
02 June 2020
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13 May 2020
Fake news - Real eyes, Realise, Real lies.
02 May 2020
INTOLERANCE
20 April 2020
08 April 2020
A question of love
We are not a half, looking for the other half to complete us.
We are complete by ourselves.
What we term as 'needing love' is the need for sympathy, understanding, compassion, friendship or even sex.
Those who demand love are beggars, those who give it are emperors.
Both never tire. The former, of asking, always remains dissatisfied and unhappy, the latter of giving, and always happy.
Even if we seem to have lost love, we can always regain it. Because love is not something to be acquired, it is something to be given.
It is a good time to ask ourselves, 'Am I a beggar or an emperor?'
01 April 2020
Dreaming of Immortality
The lockdown, due to the Coronavirus pandemic has incinerated us in our own homes.
No matter how bleak, every situation presents opportunities. We now have time to ponder over many things, family, friends, work, love, relationships, viruses, etc. Our thoughts are dominated by questions about life and death, the meaning of our existence, or the lack of it.
Modern medicine, diet and rule of law have increased the life span of most humans.Though the quality of life has degraded for many, we remain obsessed with longevity. The main purpose of our lives, has become to try and outrun death, either due to fear of death, or are we trying to be immortal.
Can we be immortal?
Are we immortal?
Most of us do not really know, and Man cannot live without knowing.
We can either, discover the answer for ourselves or we can ask others. Most of us, do not even question, we simply adopt a belief system.
In a belief system, some individuals or institution whom we consider as 'higher authorities', will give us readymade answers on everything. This we simply embrace because it makes life easy and uncomplicated.

Knowledge acquired by realisation is called wisdom and that wisdom is unique, it belongs to the one who has awoken to the one who has realised.
In belief, there is neither knowledge, nor wisdom, unawakened we just gather a lot of information, follow many rituals and rules. In belief, information is acquired merely by following or copying, hence it is not genuine and we use it as per our convenience.
Handed down to humanity through generations, beliefs are constantly being created and modified as is convenient to rulers and priests. After all, it is they, who draw their wealth and power from people who follow these belief systems.
Since beliefs are created by humans they tend to be greatly flawed and completely misleading.
When we think of ourselves as intelligent beings, why do we blindly accept beliefs?
Because by nature we humans tend to be spiritually lazy and mentally too clever.
So, what then is the answer?
All that is created will one day perish. This is the golden rule of existence.
When we die, what dies, is the body. Since the body and the mind are created, they will one day surely perish.
Science, now proves what the Gurus and great Spiritual Masters have always said, 'Everything is mere energy'. Pervading all existence and all things this life energy is called 'Prana'.
Our life emerges from 'Prana' and this our soul which is a minuscule manifested energy is part of that universal energy which will never die. This is because energy can't be created nor destroyed, it can only change its form.
Though nowadays erroneously associated only with Hinduism, the mother of all Indian thought is Sanatana Dharma. (The eternal order). It is the philosophy espoused by seekers of the truth. Whatever was realised, has been formulated by sages and transmitted to humanity. Sanatana Dharma's beauty is it is open to all and welcomes being questioned and modified. It has been constantly challenged but always found unassailable, though it is often reinterpreted.
This philosophy does not restrict the human to a body and a mind, therefore each one of us has infinite potential. This approach helps explain the remarkable achievements of ancient India in almost every field of art, culture, literature, philosophy, mathematics, science, technology, etc. I shall cover more about Sanatana Dharma in more detail in another article.
In the Sanatana tradition of India, death is called 'Dehe Anth' meaning 'end of body'. We are immortal because our soul is manifest energy, housed within a mortal body.
When we realise that, perishing of the body is not death, Fear of death disappears.
Thus when my body perishes, my soul will soar away, only to return afresh in another body in another dimension at a different time, for I am immortal.
As the Guru said, "Nothing is mine. All I have is this breath, this moment."
When we live each moment with awareness, we realise the limitations of the body and the mind and the immortality of the soul.
It is all fine and rosy to speak or write in this manner, but how will we know that this realisation has taken place?
When we awaken we will see a transformation in our approach and manner. We will be open, fearless, friendly, compassionate, forgiving, respectful and possess forbearance. This is the natural outcome when we are at peace with ourselves and with all of Creation.
We do not have to adopt any 'ism, for they are mere mortal masks on the immortal soul.
As we survive each worldly crisis, realisation will dawn on us 'I am not the body nor the mind, I am an immortal soul. I am the Universe and the Universe is me'.
21 March 2020
13 March 2020
Diligent about Nothing
Now we have a lot of free time to do pretty much nothing, so, we should be happy, right?
Wrong, because, we have so much freedom and do not know what to do with it.
At this time in history, we are at the lowest point in happiness, peace of mind and at the nadir of our mental and spiritual health. Worse, we do not know what to do.
Here we sit, leading lonely, bored and confused lives. But the normal human mind refuses to remain idle.
Therefore, we indulge ourselves in various forms of masturbation and abuse. Most frequently sexual, social, intellectual, religious financial, political, anything and everything that amuses us and inflates the self.
We are becoming increasingly narcissistic that is the is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's idealised self image and attributes.
At heart, we always have a higher opinion of ourselves than do our family, friends, peers and society have of us. In the hope that the world will recognise us if not today but sometime in the future, we record every thought and action that crosses our lonely, self occupied mind and body.
It is tragic that so much human potential, joy, passion and achievement is wasted by a generation that so diligently records themselves accomplishing so little.
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